Eliminating the Phrase “I’m Fine”

Eliminating the Phrase “I’m Fine”

We've all used the phrase. Chances are that you have probably said it at some point this week. People will ask you how you are doing and you will used the vague phrase "I'm fine" . Which really means that you aren't doing well. It seems like a response that is perfectly okay...which I suppose [...]

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The Constraining Box of Extreme Identity

The Constraining Box of Extreme Identity

There is something noticeable about extremes.  People that live in extremes (Extreme sports, extreme diets, extreme lifestyles, extreme political views, ect) seem to be the ones that always have something going for them or have some wonderful, awe-inspiring life.  It can make it hard to define your own identity when you feel so normal.   Of course [...]

If he’s not fucking you, he’s fucking someone else: And other things I’ve learned from my husband cheating.

If he’s not fucking you, he’s fucking someone else: And other things I’ve learned from my husband cheating.

I was told that there would be good days and bad days.  The past few days have been some of the bad days.  Its been a struggle not to call my ex and tell him that he ruined my life, that he ruined everything.  I keep telling myself that the only person who can ruin [...]