On Line Dating Lessons

When I was single the first time around, there really wasn’t online dating.  Well, there was but it was sort of a joke.  There weren’t all these apps and hooking up wasn’t really a huge thing.  You hooked up with people in your dorm or your class but it was hardly ever anonymous.  No, everyone […]

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The Constraining Box of Extreme Identity

There is something noticeable about extremes.  People that live in extremes (Extreme sports, extreme diets, extreme lifestyles, extreme political views, ect) seem to be the ones that always have something going for them or have some wonderful, awe-inspiring life.  It can make it hard to define your own identity when you feel so normal.   Of course […]

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A Small Reminder About Love

Sometimes we forget when we get lost in our own problems and our own struggles and pain that there is someone standing right next to us that needs just as much love and support.  It’s just who we are as human beings to forget that we are all having a shared experience of learning and […]

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Get Rid of That Shit

I have been debating or the past month on what to do with a few things form my marriage.  I know it seems silly but it’s been hard to let go and some part of me keeps thinking that something will happen and I will be able to…I don’t know fix things?  But even if my […]

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How to Make Friends: Its harder then you think!

My father mentioned last night that I needed to get out and make friends.  He is just as subtle as I am when he is trying to help I suppose. One of the things that I’m finding the hardest about this entire situation is making friends.  I know that sounds a bit strange.  I am […]

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