How to get back in touch with your own Intuition after being in a gaslighting relationship. This is always a tough thing to talk about but something that I feel has become increasingly necessary. Its no shock to the people that know me that years of living with a malignant narcissist that used gas lighting [...]
I have been debating or the past month on what to do with a few things form my marriage. I know it seems silly but it's been hard to let go and some part of me keeps thinking that something will happen and I will be able to...I don't know fix things? But even if my [...]
Its been a month and I still can't get it out of my head. I know that it will take a while to get over it. We were together for Nine years and married for almost six of them. I shouldn't be upset that he hasn't tried to make any sort of contact for a [...]
I was told that there would be good days and bad days. The past few days have been some of the bad days. Its been a struggle not to call my ex and tell him that he ruined my life, that he ruined everything. I keep telling myself that the only person who can ruin [...]
In spite of what my ex probably says, I am not a crazy person. I try not to cause or be involved in Drama. Hell even when he was having an affair and we weren't playing bump in the night I didn't even check his cell phone. I don't see the point in drama when you [...]
As many of you know, or might have already surmised, I am a big fan of non-fiction books. Of course I like fiction books too (Who doesn't want to read a book about a bunch of final girls coming together to find and knock out the worst serial killer imaginable while still having that sorority girl [...]
time to adult and nothing helps like a barnes and nobles run!
My husband had always been a very quiet but over the years (Lets just call him W) had gotten quieter. I knew that he was depressed, clinically, but I couldn't force him to do anything about it. It was something that we had talked about and he felt like I tried to do. He called [...]