Trusting Your Own Reality

Trusting Your Own Reality

How to get back in touch with your own Intuition after being in a gaslighting relationship. This is always a tough thing to talk about but something that I feel has become increasingly necessary. Its no shock to the people that know me that years of living with a malignant narcissist that used gas lighting [...]

If he’s not fucking you, he’s fucking someone else: And other things I’ve learned from my husband cheating.

If he’s not fucking you, he’s fucking someone else: And other things I’ve learned from my husband cheating.

I was told that there would be good days and bad days.  The past few days have been some of the bad days.  Its been a struggle not to call my ex and tell him that he ruined my life, that he ruined everything.  I keep telling myself that the only person who can ruin [...]

The Crazy Feeling: I Know Other People Have Felt This Before But It Doesn’t Make Me Feel Any Less Nuts

The Crazy Feeling: I Know Other People Have Felt This Before But It Doesn’t Make Me Feel Any Less Nuts

In spite of what my ex probably says, I am not a crazy person.  I try not to cause or be involved in Drama.  Hell even when he was having an affair and we weren't playing bump in the night I didn't even check his cell phone.  I don't see the point in drama when you [...]