Things Not To Say to a Person Going Through A Divorce; If You Really Have to Say Anything At All.
Tag: divorce
Get Rid of That Shit
I have been debating or the past month on what to do with a few things form my marriage. I know it seems silly but it's been hard to let go and some part of me keeps thinking that something will happen and I will be able to...I don't know fix things? But even if my [...]
Two Things That I Can’t Stop Thinking About and Should
Its been a month and I still can't get it out of my head. I know that it will take a while to get over it. We were together for Nine years and married for almost six of them. I shouldn't be upset that he hasn't tried to make any sort of contact for a [...]
If he’s not fucking you, he’s fucking someone else: And other things I’ve learned from my husband cheating.
I was told that there would be good days and bad days. The past few days have been some of the bad days. Its been a struggle not to call my ex and tell him that he ruined my life, that he ruined everything. I keep telling myself that the only person who can ruin [...]
The Crazy Feeling: I Know Other People Have Felt This Before But It Doesn’t Make Me Feel Any Less Nuts
In spite of what my ex probably says, I am not a crazy person. I try not to cause or be involved in Drama. Hell even when he was having an affair and we weren't playing bump in the night I didn't even check his cell phone. I don't see the point in drama when you [...]
Self Help Books: Are Book About Divorce Helpful or Hurtful?
As many of you know, or might have already surmised, I am a big fan of non-fiction books. Of course I like fiction books too (Who doesn't want to read a book about a bunch of final girls coming together to find and knock out the worst serial killer imaginable while still having that sorority girl [...]
Book r’ Therapy
time to adult and nothing helps like a barnes and nobles run!
So What Actually Happened?
My husband had always been a very quiet but over the years (Lets just call him W) had gotten quieter. I knew that he was depressed, clinically, but I couldn't force him to do anything about it. It was something that we had talked about and he felt like I tried to do. He called [...]
